The WAG Diaries

EP7: The Year of Me: Why Your Goals Come Before Any Man

What happens when a woman stops centering romance and starts centering herself?
In this episode of The WAG Diaries, we’re talking about The Year of Me and why your goals, growth, and future must come before any man if you want to build a life that actually feels aligned.
This is not an anti-love conversation.It’s a pro–self-respect, pro–discipline, pro–vision one.
We break down:
why women are conditioned to prioritize men over their own ambitions
how dating and relationships often derail goals without us realizing it
the real cost of shrinking, waiting, or pausing your life for potential
why high-value women build first and date from overflow
what it actually looks like to choose yourself without closing your heart
This episode is for the woman who’s done negotiating with her future, done abandoning her routines for romance, and ready to move with intention especially during the WAG Winter Lock-In.
If you’re building wealth, confidence, and clarity this season, this conversation will help you reframe love, ambition, and self-prioritization in a way that feels grounded, grown, and powerful.
🎧 Press play if you’re ready to make this year about you and trust that the right relationships will meet you there.
 
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Instagram (Personal): @byvictorianicoleInstagram (Podcast): @thewagdiariespodcastTikTok: @byvictorianicole
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EP6: Angel Numbers Explained: What 222, 444 & 777 Really Mean for Your Life

In this episode of The WAG Diaries, I'm breaking down something that felt impossible to ignore.
In the days leading up to the launch of the WAG Winter Lock-In, I kept seeing angel numbers 222, 444, and 777. Not once. Not twice. Consistently.
And instead of brushing it off, I realized something:Alignment always shows up before expansion.
So in today’s episode, we’re decoding what these angel numbers actually mean, why they tend to appear when you’re making big decisions or entering a new chapter, and how to use their messages to stay focused, disciplined, and grounded during a 90-day transformation.
This episode isn’t about superstition. It’s about awareness, intention, and using symbolism as fuel.
In this episode, we cover:
What angel numbers really are (and what they are NOT)
The meaning of 222 (alignment, trust, and staying committed to the process)
The meaning of 444 (discipline, foundations, and long-term stability)
The meaning of 777 (momentum, spiritual confirmation, and expansion)
Why these numbers often appear right before personal breakthroughs
How to use angel numbers as confirmation, not motivation
How to stay grounded and avoid spiritual bypassing
Practical ways to anchor your mindset during the WAG Winter Lock-In
How alignment + action create real transformation
If you’re starting the WAG Winter Lock-In, this episode will help you:
Stay committed when motivation fades
Trust the process instead of rushing results
Build discipline without burning out
Recognize when you’re on the right path, even when things feel quiet
This is your reminder that signs don’t replace discipline, they reinforce it.
Alignment is the signal. Action is the requirement.
And if you’ve been seeing repeating numbers lately, this episode will help you understand what they’re asking of you and how to respond like the woman you’re becoming.
Winter is for building. Spring is for blooming. Let’s lock in.
 
In this episode of The WAG Diaries, Victoria officially launches the WAG Winter Lock-In, a 12-week (90-day) transformation sprint designed to help you step into your most elevated self across the three WAG pillars: Wealth, Abundance, and Glow.
While everyone else is waiting for January 1st to start making resolutions they won’t keep, the 11:11 Girls are choosing to start preparing for their transformation now. This episode breaks down why winter is the most powerful season for transformation. Fewer distractions, more focus, and the perfect environment to build in silence and emerge unstoppable by spring.
Victoria walks you through exactly what the WAG Winter Lock-In is, how it’s structured, and how to set goals that actually change your life. Not surface-level resolutions, but identity-shifting commitments. She also shares her personal 90-day goals, including saving aggressively while living elevated, releasing 25 pounds, building a new income stream, prioritizing rest, consistency, and fully upgrading her glow from the inside out.
You’ll learn:
Why real transformation doesn’t start on January 1st, it starts the moment you decide
How to use winter to build momentum instead of falling off
How to set aligned, measurable goals across Wealth, Abundance, and Glow
Why discipline, consistency, and community are the real glow-up
How the WAG Winter Lock-In will be supported through weekly podcast check-ins, daily accountability, and the 11:11 Girls community
This episode is your invitation to lock in and to stop talking about becoming her and actually do the work. Because the woman you want to be isn’t coming magically. She’s built through 90 days of intentional action.
This isn’t a New Year’s resolution.This is a complete transformation.
Winter is for building.Spring is for blooming.And the WAG Winter Lock-In is your blueprint.
 
CONNECT:
Instagram (Personal): @byvictorianicoleInstagram (Podcast): @thewagdiariespodcastTikTok: @byvictorianicole
Linktree: linktr.ee/byvictorianicole
 
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EP5: WAG Winter Lock-In: Your 90-Day Transformation Blueprint for the New Year

In this episode of The WAG Diaries, Victoria officially launches the WAG Winter Lock-In, a 12-week (90-day) transformation sprint designed to help you step into your most elevated self across the three WAG pillars: Wealth, Abundance, and Glow.
While everyone else is waiting for January 1st to start making resolutions they won’t keep, the 11:11 Girls are choosing to start preparing for their transformation now. This episode breaks down why winter is the most powerful season for transformation. Fewer distractions, more focus, and the perfect environment to build in silence and emerge unstoppable by spring.
Victoria walks you through exactly what the WAG Winter Lock-In is, how it’s structured, and how to set goals that actually change your life. Not surface-level resolutions, but identity-shifting commitments. She also shares her personal 90-day goals, including saving aggressively while living elevated, releasing 25 pounds, building a new income stream, prioritizing rest, consistency, and fully upgrading her glow from the inside out.
You’ll learn:
Why real transformation doesn’t start on January 1st, it starts the moment you decide
How to use winter to build momentum instead of falling off
How to set aligned, measurable goals across Wealth, Abundance, and Glow
Why discipline, consistency, and community are the real glow-up
How the WAG Winter Lock-In will be supported through weekly podcast check-ins, daily accountability, and the 11:11 Girls community
This episode is your invitation to lock in and to stop talking about becoming her and actually do the work. Because the woman you want to be isn’t coming magically. She’s built through 90 days of intentional action.
This isn’t a New Year’s resolution.This is a complete transformation.
Winter is for building.Spring is for blooming.And the WAG Winter Lock-In is your blueprint.
 
CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:
Instagram (Personal): @byvictorianicoleInstagram (Podcast): @thewagdiariespodcastTikTok: @byvictorianicole
Linktree: linktr.ee/byvictorianicole
 
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EP4: How to Act Wealthy While You Build Wealth: Identity Shifts, Luxury Standards & Becoming “Her”

In today’s episode of The WAG Diaries, we’re breaking down one of the most powerful mindset shifts you can make on your glow-up journey: acting wealthy while you’re still building wealth.
Last week's episode was all about becoming the woman who thinks wealthy, this week is about becoming the woman who moves wealthy with intention, discipline, vision, and identity.
This episode teaches you:
 What “acting wealthy” really means (and what it absolutely doesn’t)
You’ll learn why this is not about faking a lifestyle, overspending, or performing luxury online. Instead, it’s about elevating your standards, habits, and environment so your identity aligns with the woman you’re becoming.
The psychology behind identity-based transformation.
We dig into the science of why your brain responds to identity before results and how embodying your wealthy woman energy NOW is what actually creates wealth later.
How to build a luxury lifestyle responsibly while staying financially smart
You’ll hear exactly how to upgrade your wardrobe, curate your environment, build your network, elevate your presence, and invest intentionally without going into debt or sacrificing your financial goals.
 Real-life examples from my own WAG journey.
You’ll see how I’m implementing all of this in real time on IG: @byvictorianicole and @WAGDiariesPodcast.
Five actionable steps to start acting wealthy TODAY
This episode gives you a blueprint for:
Elevating your environment
Making intentional luxury purchases
Building sustainable wealthy-woman habits
Showing up with confidence and presence
Putting yourself in the rooms that match your future
CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:
Instagram (Personal): @byvictorianicoleInstagram (Podcast): @thewagdiariespodcastTikTok: @byvictorianicole
Linktree: linktr.ee/byvictorianicole
 
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EP3: The Luxury Mindset: How to Think Rich Before You Are

In this powerful episode of The WAG Diaries, we break down the exact mindset shifts every woman needs to build wealth, elevate her identity, and step into her wealthy, abundant, glowing era. If you’ve ever struggled with scarcity thinking, guilt around money, fear of success, or feeling “not enough,” this episode will completely rewire how you view wealth, worthiness, and what you’re capable of.
We dive deep into the Luxury Mindset. The belief system that separates women who stay stuck from women who rise. You’ll learn why your subconscious mind (especially the programming formed before age 7) is controlling your money habits, self-worth, and financial decisions… and how to finally rewrite those beliefs so you can attract and hold more abundance with confidence.
You’ll uncover the five most common money stories holding women back, plus powerful identity-shifting reframes to break generational scarcity and build a wealthy self-concept. We also explore how to strengthen your wealth nervous system, raise your energetic minimums, embody your future wealthy self, and create habits that align with the high-value woman you’re becoming.
Whether you’re manifesting more income, starting a business, upgrading your lifestyle, or simply learning to trust yourself financially, this episode gives you the mindset tools, psychology, and practical steps to transform your relationship with money forever.
If you’re ready to think wealthy, act wealthy, and BECOME the wealthy woman you’re meant to be this episode is your blueprint.
 
CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:
Instagram (Personal): @byvictorianicoleInstagram (Podcast): @thewagdiariespodcastTikTok: @byvictorianicole
Linktree: linktr.ee/byvictorianicole
 
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EP2: The WAG Audit: How to Assess Your Current Reality Across Wealth, Abundance & Glow

Ready to transform your life? You can't build what you can't see. In this episode, I'm walking you through how to conduct a complete WAG Audit: an honest assessment of where you are RIGHT NOW across the three pillars of Wealth, Abundance, and Glow.
What You'll Learn:
Wealth Audit:
How to track where your money is actually going (not where you think it's going)
Why multiple income streams are essential for building real wealth
How to identify your relationship with luxury spending
The truth about saving and investing, and how to start even with just $5 a day
Abundance Audit:
How to uncover the limiting beliefs sabotaging your success
Why your internal dialogue is either building you up or tearing you down
The difference between scarcity and overflow mindset (and which one you're actually operating from)
How your reaction to other women's success reveals your true abundance blocks
Glow Audit:
How to honestly assess your energy levels and physical health
Why your physical presence affects everything from confidence to opportunities
When you last felt like "her" and what that reveals about your path forward
Simple strategies to reclaim your glow starting this week
Key Takeaways:
This isn't about judgment. It's about gaining radical clarity so you can build the luxury life you deserve. Transformation starts with awareness, and this audit gives you the roadmap to see exactly where you're starting from.
Action Steps:
Track your spending for 7 days, catch and replace one scarcity thought daily, and move your body for 20 minutes three times this week.
Perfect for: Women who are ready to stop operating from delusion and start building from reality. If you're serious about wealth building, mindset transformation, and elevating your lifestyle, this episode is your starting point.
CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:
Instagram (Personal): @byvictorianicoleInstagram (Podcast): @thewagdiariespodcastTikTok: @byvictorianicole
Linktree: linktr.ee/byvictorianicole
 
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EP1: Let's Rebrand: Step Into Your Wealthy, Abundant, Glowing Era

Welcome to The WAG Diaries, the podcast for women building wealth, abundance, and glow without waiting for a man to give it to them.
In this premiere episode, I'm sharing why I rebranded from "Girl, We Grown Now" to The WAG Diaries, what the WAG lifestyle actually means, and how you can start building yours today.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:- Why "navigating your 30s" is the wrong approach (and what to do instead)- The 3 pillars of the WAG lifestyle: Wealth, Abundance, and Glow- How to shift from survival mode to creation mode- Why waiting for a man to give you the luxury lifestyle is keeping you stuck- The first steps to building financial independence and confidence- How to create a life so abundant that a partner becomes optional, not essential
Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode is your permission slip to stop waiting and start building.
If you're a woman who's done waiting for permission, ready to create the luxury life you deserve, and committed to becoming the wealthiest, most abundant, most magnetic version of yourself, this podcast is for you.
New episodes drop every Tuesday at 11:11 am!
 
CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:
Instagram (Personal): @byvictorianicoleInstagram (Podcast): @thewagdiariespodcastTikTok: @byvictorianicole
Linktree: linktr.ee/byvictorianicole
 
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[ARCHIVE - Pre-Rebrand] EP76: The Glorification of Submissive Women: Are Outspoken Women Really Undateable? Or Just Too Hard to Control?

Welcome to the "Girl, We Grow Now" podcast, where we're navigating life in our 30s.
Hosted by Victoria—your sassy, tell-it-like-it-is bestie—this episode dives into
the question: 'Are we really "too much," or are we just too much for the wrong people?'
With the rise of the trad wife aesthetic and a growing push toward more conservative gender roles, there’s been a lot of chatter about what it means to be a woman in today’s world. So let’s have a little chat—because last time I checked, being independent, outspoken, and self-sufficient wasn’t a crime.
Are strong women really finishing last in love? Or are we just weeding out the men who were never on our level to begin with? In this episode, we’re diving into the myth that submission equals relationship success, why some men chase independent women only to try and clip their wings, and that it is possible to find a partnership that respects your voice instead of silencing it.
Because love isn’t about control—it’s about collaboration. And I refuse to believe that being THAT GIRL means you have to end up alone. Make sure to tune in and share this episode with your besties!
 
Links to check out!
Victoria's Instagram
Victoria's TikTok
GWGN Recommendations 
 
 

[ARCHIVE - Pre-Rebrand] EP75: Girl Chat - Your Love, Your Rules: Dating Smarter & Creating a Marriage That Works for You w/ Brittney Sacaza

Welcome to this week's episode of "Girl, We Grown Now" where Victoria wraps up the relationship series with her friend, Brittney. Join their candid girl chat as they discuss redefining marriage away from traditional norms, embracing a personalized relationship path, and the journey of self-discovery in marriage.
This episode delves into the significance of clear communication and mutual respect in relationships, the importance of maintaining individuality within a marriage, and advice
on cultivating intimacy. Brittney shares her experiences on overcoming societal stereotypes and religious expectations, and how she found the comfort of creating a marriage that truly fits her and her husband's unique dynamic.
Plus, Victoria and Brittany talk dating tips for women in their 30s, emphasizing the necessity of setting clear boundaries, looking for green flags, and understanding the importance of knowing one's worth. Tune in for a refreshing take on love, relationship standards, and all the tea on modern partnership dynamics!
 
Links to Checkout!
Anwar's 'How to get engaged in a year' Anwar's TikTok video
Victoria's Instagram
Victoria's TikTok
GWGN Recommendations 

[ARCHIVE - Pre-Rebrand] EP74: Building a Supportive Community + Combating Jealousy in Friendships w/ Nina Sanyal Pt.2

In this week's episode of the "Girl, We Grown Now" podcast, host Victoria and her guest Nina dive into the complexities of friendships in our 30s. They explore the importance of having a supportive community and discuss how to navigate common challenges like jealousy, self-worth, and changing life phases in relationships.
Victoria and Nina share insights on how to build and maintain deep, meaningful friendships by balancing personal growth and accountability. They also touch upon the need for variety in friendships, emphasizing the benefits of having friends in similar life stages.
Tune in to hear how you can revamp your friendship circles and cultivate a healthier social network that reflects your current needs and values. Share with a friend who wants to elevate their friendships!
 
Links to Checkout!
Nina's Instagram
Nina's TikTok
Victoria's Instagram
Victoria's TikTok
GWGN Recommendations